(Warning: This post is not about me waiting for my missionary, so if you are looking for those posts, scroll down a little. This is something a little different)
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Jared is my boyfriend while I'm waiting with 9 months to go.
I know all of you are "team Preston" but since Jared has become a part of my waiting process, I thought I'd include him with one post dedicated to him.
He really has supported me with waiting. He's such a sweetheart, and has been a wonderful blessing.
We've been dating 2 months today. He leaves on his mission sometime in the near future, so I don't know what will happen. But since this blog is supposed to be a diary of my wait, I just had to include Jared. Because he's become a wonderful part of my wait.
Instead of writing about Jared, I'll just.... show him to you :)
Desiree and Jared from Desiree Moore on Vimeo.
As if that wasn't enough, here's another 18 minutes of Jared and I answering some questions about how well we know each other. Sometimes we get bored on Friday nights and so this is what happens..
Desiree and Jared from Desiree Moore on Vimeo.
As if that wasn't enough, here's another 18 minutes of Jared and I answering some questions about how well we know each other. Sometimes we get bored on Friday nights and so this is what happens..
Okay seriously, you two are SO cute!!! How do you make that cool video!?!?!?!
ReplyDeleteI just put it together on imovie and published it to my Vimeo account :)
DeleteOkay umm so I stalk this page all the time. And I was like team preston all the way. But now that I have seen this adorable video I don't even know who's team I am on anymore! Oh my word boy guys seem absolutely amazing.
ReplyDeleteAnd by boy I am both. Oops hahah
ReplyDeletewatching that movie makes me kinda sad. i have been following you for so long and my missionary just left three weeks ago and you were my biggest example. it's just kinda sad to see a video of another guy on your blog thats dedicated to waiting.
ReplyDeleteYou and Jared really do seem to have great chemistry together. And you look so happy with him! But now you basically have 2 boyfriends.. that must be confusing!
ReplyDeleteYou guys are SO cutttte! :) This makes me so happy! At first I didn't understand, but now I am so happy you are dating Jared :) He's adorable! You are still my biggest role model :)
ReplyDeleteway to make your own choice! :) I hope everything ends up okay with BOTH of your guys
ReplyDeleteP.s. hows preston doin?? :)
You seem super happy with Jared! I'm really happy for you!
ReplyDeleteThey aren't boys in make-believe books.. they're real people with real feelings.
ReplyDeleteWhat do you mean?
DeleteYeah, and I'm pretty sure she understands that..
Deletei mean that it's not something that should be taken so lightly as to say "team a" and "team b".. you're breaking one of their hearts and whose ever heart you choose to break deserves enough respect as to not be described as option #2.
DeleteI only said "Team Preston" because I was referring to the people who want me to be with Preston no matter what. Because I have some friends who say, "I want you to be with Preston no matter what. I'll always like him more than Jared" and I was referring to those people as "Team Preston" I don't consider them as "options". It's not like I'm sitting here thinking, "Hmm, Jared Or Preston.. which one should I pick" It's a lot deeper than that. I am trying with everything I have to be as respectful as possible to both of them. I've thought so much about each of their feelings.
Deleteyou have two boyfriends. how is that fair or respectful to either of them?
DeletePreston is not my boyfriend right now. He hasn't been my "boyfriend" ever since I started casually dating. I considered him my "missionary" because who goes out and dates when they have a boyfriend? He hasn't been my "boyfriend" for a while.
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Deletei go out and date casually while i have a boyfriend.
Deleteif what you're saying is true, then i don't see anything wrong with what you're doing.
honestly, this is absolutely none of my business. it doesn't matter to me in the least who you marry - it doesn't matter to anyone except you. the reason that i wanted to comment is because the boy who is on a mission doesn't have a say in this - he's on a mission. his real name with pictures of himself are being posted all over a blog that anyone can see (including future employers) and he can't do anything to stop it. he can't even see it.
Desiree,
ReplyDeleteKEEP DOING YOUR THANG! Dont you dare feel that you have to "sugar-coat" or change anything on your blog...this is YOUR diary. You are the real deal--and that's what we all love about you. If people have a problem with it, tough break--get over it. You can delete this comment if it's too controversial or what not..but, you know what---you, being 100% honest (the way that you have been) is the true meaning of a "role model" or "example". Those girls who seriously believe that "waiting" (whatever the heck that actually consists of) is a walk in the park...well, they are in for a big REALITY CHECK. Girls, remember this: Every time you point at someone, there are three fingers pointing back at you..and I think that it is safe to say that Desiree realizes that these boys are real people with real feelings--isnt that obvious? Newsflash:She's a real girl with REAL feelings..
don't ever feel sorry for being a social, outgoing, beautiful, ambitious, spiritual girl. YOU KEEP MOVING FORWARD! What's meant to be, will be. If anything, Desiree, you are my biggest example BECAUSE you are dating & living life for you.
With love,
Genny
You and Jared are so cute together! :) But I want you with Preston. It's the kinda feeling I got when I read the Hunger Games. I liked Peeta and Gale. I am torn :( Ignore everyone who is mad about Jared. This is your life, not theirs. If they don't like it, then they can ignore it. You should always do what makes you happiest and trust your heart. And don't forget you are never alone in life. God is there for you and He will never leave you <3 Say hi to both of them for me! :)
ReplyDeletei officially dislike Jared... why? because he failed to respond with your obsession for Justin Bieber :p
ReplyDeletehaha just kidding...but really....
Hahahahaha this is soooo true. He knows I'm obsessed, i don't know why he didn't say anything about it lol i'll bring up to him for you Ashley ;)
Deletehow are you seriously dating this boy but still know you want to marry your missionary? someone is going to get so hurt by all of this. not very fair.
ReplyDeleteI would LOVE LOVE LLOVEEE to talk to you. THis exact same thing happened to me. Hahah you will have to go back and read my blog from last july- until now.. hahah its crazy. i use to belong to that mg girls group on fb too. Lets be friends :) Maybe my story will help you out a little :)
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